Religion

November 05, 2008

Losing our religion: Young adults at Temple Emanu-El

Offer-left As the November cover story noted, Temple Emanu-El — like many other religious institutions — has experienced a decline in its young adult population in recent years, and temple leaders have spent quite a bit of time and effort focusing on how to retain this generation. They think they've found one of the secrets:

"The big joke is, you know, beer," says Mimi Zimmerman, the temple's young adults coordinator. Whether it's a Tu B'Shevat Seder and wine tasting or just a casual night of burgers and beer, young people are showing up. But they stick around for other reasons.

One is Temple Emanu-El's new dues structure for young adults. (The marketing tagline, "All kinds of Jews. All kinds of dues," is pictured.) All temple members pay a set amount of annual dues as part of their membership, but "if you are a young adult, someone between 21 and 39, you can join temple for your first year at a voluntary amount of your choosing," Zimmerman says. After that, "there is a dues structure just for this age range, so that those dues were dropped drastically from what just the average member of temple gives."

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October 28, 2008

Losing our religion: Books that pastors read

9780060836948 I interviewed more than 25 clergy for November's cover stories, and most of those interviews took place in their studies. As you can imagine, when talking about the present and future of churches with ministers who are surrounded by books, it's inevitable for some of those books to be discussed.

Here are just a few that were mentioned (and a couple generously loaned to me, which I plan to return as soon as I read them):

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Losing our religion: The new meaning of ‘inclusive’

These days, when a church professes to be “inclusive”, that means it welcomes anyone into its worship, no matter his race, culture, political views, background, and sometimes even beliefs. It’s also pretty safe to assume that an “inclusive” church calls itself so because it has taken a stance in the last 10 or 20 years to welcome people of any sexual orientation.

It struck me while working on this story that just a few decades ago, a church that both literally and metaphorically proclaimed its intent to “open the doors to anyone” was likely a white church welcoming blacks into its midst, or vice versa. That may seem obvious to many of us now, even anti-Christian to do otherwise, but it was a radical decision on the part of churches in the ’60s and ’70s, especially in the South (no, Texas is not categorically the South, but Dallasites often tell me that in terms of race, it might as well be).

In the late ’80s, ‘90s and early 21st century, churches who welcome gay and lesbian people as fellow worshippers and equal members are considered radical. Episcopal Church of the Transfiguration is one of those, and it has experienced its share of condemnation as a result. But it is also a growing, thriving church, and leaders such as Rector J.D. Godwin and congregational development director Ellen Dingwall point to the church’s mission —  “Respect the dignity and freedom of every person and promise to seek and serve Christ in all persons” — as the main reason for this.

While working on this story, pastors of more conservative or moderate congregations told me off the record that they think the future of churches will trend in the direction of being inclusive to people of all sexual orientations, an the idea of excluding gay and lesbian people will become ludicrous, just as the idea of a church today stopping people at the door because of their skin color is ludicrous.

I have a hunch, though, that even if it becomes the norm in 10, 20, 30 years, the churches that will be able to best live out their call to inclusivity will be the churches that took the stance early on. Those who don’t will probably struggle, just as the churches that remained closed off in the ’60s and ’70s, either officially or unofficially, still struggle today to have a multi-racial congregation.

Many pastors I talked to admitted that, unfortunately, the words of the late Martin Luther King Jr. — “the most segregated hour of Christian America is eleven o'clock on Sunday morning” — are still true four decades later. They were spoken in King’s last public sermon, as he christened the pulpit at the National Cathedral in Washington, D.C., and you can listen to excerpts here.

October 27, 2008

Losing our religion: Is liturgy the 'new' hip thing?

One interesting theme that kept popping up as I talked to pastors of mainline churches for November’s cover story was that they are seeing an increase of young worshippers returning to their liturgical services.

Ellen Dingwall of Episcopal Church of the Transfiguration says a 20-something church member named Matt heads up the congregation's NeXtgen ministry, which has exploded over the last few years. "Young folks, both single and couples from early 20s up to 40, across the board have said the same thing: We want the formal liturgy. We want the sacred. We can go to happy hour on Friday night and have a blast. We don’t need that on Sunday morning."

I have my own theories about this, being a Gen X-er or Buster or whatever you want to call it. I found myself gravitating toward liturgy and “high church” during college, weary from the emotionalism and showiness of upbeat contemporary services. The only thing I could figure is that since my generation grew up in the postmodern era of relativism, we yearn for the historic, for traditions that have spanned centuries.

To paraphrase author Sarah Raymond of “Dear Church: Letters from a Disillusioned Generation”, 20- and 30-somethings grew up watching MTV. They know it’s fake. They don’t want their houses of worship resembling the entertainment world because if they’re going to spend time in church, they want to know that it’s authentic.

In the story, I often quoted Robin Lovin, Southern Methodist University ethics professor and former dean of Perkins School of Theology. His words conveyed a similar explanation: “Certainly it’s true that I think people are looking for an experience in worship that doesn’t just duplicate what they get when they turn on the television, so we may be going through a cycle where more traditional styles of worship are becoming prominent.”

But Lovin also explains that the trend, once again, has something to do with life cycles: “You had a generation that clearly didn’t want to go to their father’s church, but they now have children of their own, and as happens in this kind of cycle, all of a sudden the old ways of worship are new again for a young adult who has not experienced this form of liturgy.”

Losing our religion: The blog conversation

If it hasn't already, the November edition of the Advocate should arrive at your front door sometime soon. Some of you have already noticed and read the cover story on neighborhood places of worship. I know this because the letters already have begun coming in, conveying everything from why we shouldn't have done the story in the first place to reasons for attendance decline that we didn't explore.

We welcome your letters, and encourage you to write us with any feedback (send them to editor@advocatemag.com). I may even discuss some of your thoughts on the Back Talk blog over the next couple of weeks. Also on the blog in coming days, I'll be sharing bits and pieces from the interviews that didn't quite fit into the story. If you're so inclined, I hope you'll join the conversation with your comments.

October 16, 2008

This weekend: Arapho Fall Festival and Parkhill garage sale

Pumpkins You've likely noticed the dip in the temperature, and if you're anything like me, that puts you in an autumn state of mind. If you feel like digging out the sweater and sipping some cider, head to the Fall Festival at Arapaho United Methodist Church this Saturday, Oct. 18, between 10 a.m.-4 p.m. There will be all sorts of baked goodies, food, a craft fair, a pumpkin patch and pumpkin painting, carnival-style games and prizes, and a bounce house. Admission is $5 at the door, but that gets you a wristband that's good for all the activities all day.

Or, if you'd rather make the most of that weather by hitting up the neighborhood garage sale circuit, you could head over to Parkhill Junior High. That's where the PTA will be putting on one massive garage sale going on all day. There will be all sorts of trash-to-treasure finds, as well as some crafts, and of course, plenty of good bargain deals.

October 01, 2008

Spring Valley UMC: 'Lars and the Real Girl'

200pxlars_real_girl The words "church" and "anatomically-correct doll" are rarely ever used in the same sentence, but I assure you, they go together perfectly in this weekend's event at Spring Valley United Methodist Church.

Spring Valley has turned the first Friday of every month into a discussion of books and movies, and how they relate to ethical Christian living. This Friday's showing is "Lars and the Real Girl", which is probably the best movie I've seen in the last year, and also gets closer to the heart of what a church should be than possibly any movie I've ever seen.

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June 03, 2008

A minister at Obama's former church crosses a line again, but is it a line that matters to anyone?

At the risk of wandering blindly into two highly charged areas, I have to ask this question: Why is a Barack Obama's now-former congregation laughing and cheering about Hillary Clinton being a cry-baby during a Sunday worship service?

In this lull day as Obama takes the Democratic nomination but before the full-scale war of words begins for the fall campaign, it's as good a time as any to think about the involvement of church in state. You're probably heard the latest flap concerning Trinity United Church of Christ, which caused Obama to resign his membership: A visiting Catholic priest went off on Hillary during his Sunday sermon, adding a couple of racist-tinged comments and then wiping fake tears from his eyes in a reference to Hillary's occasionally weepy campaign actions. You can see some of what was said on YouTube and read about what happened here in the Chicago Sun-Times, the home paper to Obama's church.

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March 21, 2008

Why Christmas and not Easter?

Eas_12 Every year when we get to Holy Week, I have to sit back and wonder why Christians don't make a ruckus about the commercialization of Easter the way many of them do about Christmas.

Of the two religious holidays, Easter is the more important. I realize Jesus had to be born in order for Christians to even be celebrating Easter, but if there had been no resurrection, I'm pretty sure we wouldn't celebrate Christmas. (At least that's what my more theologically intelligent friends tell me.)

Yes, there are bunnies and rabbits and eggs and LOTS of chocolate candy around Easter. How this is any different than Santa Claus and reindeer and Frosty and eggnog, I don't know. But even pagan origins and fertility symbols aside, if you ask someone about their plans for Easter, you'll most likely get an answer that has something to do with brunch.

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November 29, 2007

Dallas man asks: Do you believe every word?

ImagesIn the most recent CNN/YouTube debate among GOP candidates, 24-year-old Joseph Dearing of Dallas asked the candidates:

"Do you believe every word of the Bible?"

And then, according to yesterday's DMN article, Mr. Dearing was disappointed in all the candidates' answers, which he felt skirted what he was driving at (though I'm still not sure what answer he was looking for — the DMN reporter, frustratingly, either didn't ask Mr. Dearing what answer he was looking for and what his motivation for asking the question, or asked and didn't print his response.) I gather, however, that he was looking for a simple "yes."

Anyway, it was an interesting if overly simplistic question that has spurred plenty of comments and debate on CNN's political ticker blog. Click on the link and you'll also get a glimpse of Dearing.